Akumaa Mama Zimbi

Akumaa, i need help pls. my husband n i have been married for two years. my problem is he doesnt talk about anything except abt his work n friends. when we have a problem he can shut up for days without talking to me n when he eventually does, he pretends that nothing has happened. sometimes i wonder if he cares about me at all. i'm very much aware that he talks to his mother and sis abt our problems and i hate it. this is making me dislike his mother and sister which i dont like. please Akumaa, how can i get him to communicate wit me before its too late?

I think you should communicate to your husband on the issue. He is not talking to you, but are you talking to him?
Try talking to him and i think he will understand your concerns

Akumaa, i am informed you have a dvd on sex styles. where can i get one to buy?

yOUR PROGRAMME HAS BEEN SO GREAT THAT IT PREPARE BOTH THE YOUTH AND MARRIED TO KNOW THE REALITY OF LIFE AND HOW TO CONTROL YOU LIFE REGARDING RELATIONSHIP AND

AKUMAA, IS IT GOOD TO MARRY AT ALL?

akumaa eye asem oh

akumaa meserewo kakyeere beema no se onnya abotere na ommbo mpayie na nyame beye amam no wai...medaase!!!!!

I think the woman should ask the mother in law to talk to the son to open to to her. Or better still she should do the talking even if she is not listen for sometime. And she will notice some changes in the husban.

MAAME I THINK I AGREE WITH THE DOCTOR.IN THE FIRST PLACE,THE MAN SHOULD NOT THE LADY NO MORE MONEY FOR BUSINESS.
AS FOR THE LADY WHO WENT AWAY,THE MAN IS NOT TRUST WORTHY TO BE MARRIED.CAUSE THE LADY WAS THINKING ABOUT HE FAMILY.AS A RESULT HE WAS FLIRTTING AROUNDTHE WIFE WHEN SHE WAS THERE.IF NOT HE WILL NOT TELL HER TO GO.IT IS A BIG MISTAKE.

AKUMA HMMM EYE ASEM OOH.ENE EMAA NO A OMO ABA NO EBINOM TE SAA.SE EFIRI FIE OH SE EYE OMO ANKASA SUBAN OH OBIN ENTUMI NNHU.ENTI MIDIE DIA MEKA NE SE OMPE OBI A BEEMA NO FERE NO NA YEMPA KYE MMA NO

MY DEAR AKUMA.I THINK SOME PEOPLE DON'T KNOW HOW TO JOKE OR PLAY,TELL MY DEAR MOTHER THAT IT IS NOTHING,SHE SHOULD TAKE IT EASY,CAUSE I DO THE SAME FOR FUN BUT I KNOW WHERE,WHEN AND HOW TO DO THAT.STAY BLESS.

I JUST WANT TO COMMENT ON THE LADY WITH A SHORT CUT EDUCATION.LOOK TELL HER TO FORGET ABOUT THESE GRADUATES AND PRAY.
DO YOU KNOW THAT,AKUMA,THE YOUTH OF THESE DAYS LUCK PRAYERS.TO SAY IT AGAIN WE HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE,MAY SHE IS NOT GOOD IN SEX.BUT TELL HER TO PRAY.I AGREE WITH THE PASTOR

FROM AKIM ACHIASE, AKUMAA, PLEASE I WILL LIKE TO KNOW HOW MANY MUNIITES DOES WOMAN TAKE TO COME OUT WHEN SHE MEET MAN ON BED.

akumaa i agree with yaw dompreh because the cousin is her boyfriend and am sure that canada guy's friend which is the one who introduced the girl to thim,might be the boyfriend ho knows?so the guy should just move on with his life instead of wasting his time..thank you(MEDAAAAASE)

Mamazimbi,pls i really need a serious & Christain man to get marry to.

Akumaa, the only best way to bring up children is to train them with Christian principles and instill the fear of God in them. Please, try to repeat the talk on communication in marriage which was done last week.

akumaa i am ready to marry but i dont know how to propose to a lady please can lok for a nice lady for me to marry . iam 25 years old. please you can contact me on 0242573656 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it '> This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it

my dear am not anble to listen cause your guys are having comlication with the sytem can you please look into that for us

The guy shouldn't give even pin the girl as a souvenir.She's a pro.

The man should go to church if he is not and attain church followship God will surely give him his heart desire.

May be, the man has found another woman.

mama please check the system for us.the online is not coming.

akumaa, i have a problem. i am dating a guy , he tolm me that along the way when i get pregnant he will me now i got pregnant and told him, the first question he asked was how could i be pregnant? so out of fear i went adn abortted it without his knowlege twodays after he came to me that i should fix a date so that we should go and see my parents. am confused cose i tought he didnt wnat it now he is claiming responsibility. should i go ahead the marirage without letteing him know that i have aborted it? plis help cose he wants it done by the end of this month...

Akumaa, i proposed to a girl and she said no but she calls me everyday and she always want to see me around her.does it mean she is pretending or she dont want me to feel bad.

Akumaa thans for your wonderful work .God bless you and your family.Amen.

Akuumaa thans for your program.It helps me in my marriage.May God bless you.Amen

Hi Akuumaa,
Why do most Africans think about men using women suxually? In places like USA, sex is about both men and women. Women have sex to enjoy men. You only get used when you feel used.

AKUMAA TELL THE GUY TO FORGIVE THE GIRL BECAUSE IT MAY BE THAT SHE WAS BEEN RAPED,SO IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO TELL TRUTH.

the man should talk about it as a man,becausehe love her.

Mama,the guy has got some hidden intention since he refused giving the woman's number out. THANKS.

Akuma i wish we shd all help this young lady and again she men are very very wicked instead of helping the poor once they sleep with them first this girl must have made mistake , but we shd so times is not the girl but the men too need to be advised

I think The husband is gay and addicted to porn and I wiil advice the lady to move on with her live.

Akuma please i need a serious girl my number is 0209196125 waiting for that sweet girl call me soon

am in a pain writen this, Antie am in releationship an i love the guy so much but my parents are force me to marry a rich man , i force to
to pregants for my guy and we are geting marriage not kowing he is dating with other girl , i got shock and i have get miscarriage, please
Antie adavice me some thing is doing me ,men are wicked

hi,i like your programme so much.

Akumaa this man is not serious,what is he God.God will pay you in your own coin someday woman you can make it since God is your provider.

My comment on this situation is that if it was really out of anger that pushed him to go with the second man then the lady shd got herself to be blamed, but if it was out of frustration then she shd go ahead with the second relation since there was no guarantee that the previous would reappear in the scene if all was well after he dumped her. she shd be bold to decide what she really wanted in her life. Good luck

Much as I sympatize with my dear driver, I advise that he prays to God. His quest for a woman now is based on help. It may not be out of genuine love. He should consider finding something meaningful to do in the interim rather than getting a "scholarship".

Its unfortunate the lady followed her heart and it ended this way. I think they should not break-up, but continue their lively relationship, remember love is the ultimate. I listened to my parenets but refuted their suggestion to find me a lady. i gave up my relationship after several break-ups. my mum told me she isnt the right lady for me but i would not listen. Note that sex before marriage can never be right. from O.D (UK)

Akumaa, am first of all want to tell you that , i love you and adom f.m in general. I just want to tell my sister in Norway that, she should try to call some friends of the guy and herself . And infront of the friends ask the guy either he is ready to marry her or not, but she should try to let the guy give her answer before dismissal of the meeting. But if she find out that the guy is not ready to do so , then she have right to go out of the guy.
Thanks you.

Tell the lady to pray to GOD

Akumaa,
Tell the girl to stand on her grounds, if the guy really loves her, then time dose not matter
they should wait till the rights is performed.

but in the other hand too lets also consider the trustworthiness of this girl.

I am a regular listerner of your programme. Pls I need a help from you. I am a young lady of 32 years, and a seamstress. I live in Tema. I need a Gentleman between the ages of 35-40 for a serious relationship leading to marriage. You can contact me on 0242539110.

counting on your co-operation.

medase

Please Akumaa,
How rich is the boy?
For someone to compare living in Kumasi to Schooling in U, then the boy must be rich.
I am in U.S schooling. I think if the girl think life with him will help her, she should go for it.

My heart is burning: Akumaa,I proposed to a girl and she accepted it. She was actually staying with someone (House help). She decided to live because the woman promised to put her into a job which she failed. I met this girl's family i.e. the mother and the elder brother. I promised to put the girl into the job (Hair dress'ng). Akumma, in fact the family and the girl are ungrateful, could u belive I made a parcel and gave it to the mother, the mother called the son to inform him that I brought her something small, the son called me on phone to insult me.The girl (my girl friend) also called me to talk to me in a rude way and aslo insulted me. My mother loved this girl very much before but now she is insisting I should stop with the girl. I even went to her home town and infact no one said something good about this girl.I am self employed (secretariat and communication) and planning to open a barbering saloon attached to the work. She told me to stop my work and write an application to be given to her brother, so that he can give it their uncle at SSNIT to be employed. We had a misunderstanding and could u belive that she raised curses on me and calls me a FOOL. In fact I have really been a fool. Akumaa, I am heart broken, can u help me to heal my wounds in me. My contact no. is 0244-780045

medase akuma that's y i don't want 2 get married this is somthing else i feel so sorry 4 her.

am written from usa
the woman shld came to Ghana with her husband, take all him paper from her and leave him here

i think you are doing agreat job keep on .my problem is how tell women yhat i have in love with them

pls what is happen to lady i can not rcal her name but coatof many colours

can i cal you tomorrow?

U MAKE ME TOO SEXY FOR MY GIRLFRIEND

eiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii akumaa this gril need god in her life.

Akumaa Nyame ne nokore nie woboa yen paa mekyera medofo Maggie Tema

Akumaa, i have a serious problem. i am 24 years and my girlfriend is also 23years and we have been in the relationship for two and half years and we were in one of the Training Colleges in Ghana so i decided to marry her and according to the lady, the mother don't want her to marry a teacher so after completion of our course, we departed to our various home in the first week of August. We were communicating alright and i dont know what happened to the lady, she called for breakup of relationship for three months without any reasons i agreed to her because i love her.So on 11th of December, 2009 around 11:49pm this lady sent me a text message which reads "I am sorry i am pregnant" so called her and find out from her and she confirmed to me that i am not responsible for the pregnancy and she was rap by a family friend so i told her to give me the persons number so that i can call for the guys arrest but unfortunately this lady gave me wrong number and this time around the mother is saying that, she will take the baby after six months so that the lady will come and stay with me so that i marry her latter on. So i need advice from the public

akumaa da man nrrd 2 quit da job and run 4 his life medase.

Hello Akumaa,I must first of all salute you for everything you are doing for both singles and married couples.Im a very good looking lady with good character, 27 years of age and a hardworking lady.I want a single caring young man between the ages of 29 to 38 years old.Only good looking guys both in character and appearance should call me,as well as a caring,loving,romantic,man.That special person should be tall and so attractive,with qualities of a good hardworking partner.I want a God-fearing man who is a christain from any religion,being it Orthodox,charismatic or pentecostal.If you are that lucking charming man,then,call my number now,cos im very attractive and single.You can reach me on 027 9999994,020 4571751,026 6718054.My mail address is \n This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it '> This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it ,or \n This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it '> This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it ks already,cos im waiting for your call.

how can a man contribute money for to buy a car and can not afford to give you chop money,some women can pretend papa.na waaooooo.medaase

i had a girl and there was a problem between the two of us and we had to break up for a while. when we broke up she couldnt stay alone for a while she got into another relationship and broke her virginity something i cherished most but we are back into the relationship again but anytime i remember this i begin to cry. can u help me am get mad everyday i dont know what to do. pls help me akumaaaaaa. please my number is 0244541279

akumaa he for gv the woman...beacuse the child will become good in feature

Dear Mama Zimbi, I have fallen in love with my cousin's friend but I don't know how I can disclose that to her. I would love to marry her if I get to know her well. I am dying to tell her how I feel. But the danger is I just saw her once and I haven't set eyes on her till date.

what de sun did so as de rain wil also ...... I think she deserved what de guy has planed.

HI AKUMAA,
I am 37 years old gentleman and a gifted natural counsellor. Though single, i have a lot of life experiences that place me in a better position to advise your listeners on certain issues. I will be interested in appearing on your show as and when you find it necessary to add my voice to your good team to address some of the problems and challenges confronting your numerous listeners. I am on a long operation's break and not working at the moment. I drive and therefore transportation to and from the show will not be a problem. I speak Twi, Krobo and English.
you may get in touch with me through \n This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it '> This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or 0244298351. Thanking you inticipation for a response from you.

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Akumaa
I think the guy only wants to take advantage of her . She should forget about him and move on with her life.
She will meet the right guy. MEDAASE

de guy really love ABIBA IF NOT HE WILL COME 2 DE STUDIO

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engish language is not in any way affect better marriage .even studies shows that i know my right marriages are not successfull so only God can make it

can u pls tell me the time,u have been having the program advising people about their sex behaviours

May God bless u for the advise u have been giving to couples
b'cos if it wasn't for ur advise many marriages would have collapsed:-

Akumaa this man should ask for forgiveness from God.Now i understand what my father was doing to my mum,thought it was teenage tandrome but i was right.sometimes i feel like confronting my father cos that hatred is there.

HELLO AKUMAA,I WANT TO KNOW IF THE LADY DONT HAVE PARENTS,SHE SHOULD ALSO DISCUSS IT WITH HER PARENT FOR THEM ALSO TO HAVE A PEACE TALK WITH THE MANS PARENTS.MEDAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASE.

akumaa i think there is a big problem with the man so i want his wife to pray for him else fire

AM A YONG GUY OF 25YEARS OF AGE I HAVE A GIRL FRINED BUT NEVER HAD SEX WITH HER SHE TOLD ME SHE IS A VIRGIN AND I BELIVED HER COS SHE IS FROM A CHRISTIAN HOME AND DUE TO THIS I UNDERSTAND HER AND NEVER WANT TO HURT HER AND JUST SOME FEW MONTH AGO, SHE STARTED BEHAVING STRANGE TOWARED ME. WHEN EVER I CALL HER SHE DOES NOT PICK AND DOES NOT CALL OF ANY THIN I TEL HER AND I TOLD HER WE SHOULD BREAK UP. WE DO COMMUNICATE ALRIGHT BUT I NEVER CALL HER SHE IS THE ONE WHO ALWAYS CALL ME AND SINCE WE BROK UP I NEVER WORRY MY SELF TO TAKE ANY GIRL COS WE HAVE NEVER HAD SEX AND THAT THOUGHT ME HOW TO LIVE ALONE WITHOUT A WOMAN.
AND JUST SOME FEW DAYS AGO, SHE CALL ME AND SAID TO ME THAT WE SHOULD BE TOGETHER ONCE MORE BUT SHE IS HAVING A PERSONAL PROBLEM WHICH SHE IS TRYING TO SORT OUT BEFORE
I WENT AHEAD AND FINE OUT THAT SHE IS WITH ANOTHER GUY BUT SHE IS TRYING OT BRAKE UP WITH HIM, SO I TOLD HER NOT TO COS I KNOW HOW IS PAINS WHEN WE GOT BROKE UP AND THAT SHE SHOULD PRAY FOR GODS INTERVENTION. FOR ALL THINGS POSSIBLE IN HER LIFE, BUT SHE SAID NO WHAT DO I DO PLS HELP ME.

Ike should really leave that alone, let her sort out her problem cause you gave the best advice, Gye Nyame....Medase

But to Sis Akua, wow, communication is key, I think its time your find your sounding board as well. Continue to be and strive to be the listener and don't let the only thing that comes out of your mouth be complaining OKAY. Complement your husband, give him lots of praise and kindness and that will loosen his ice-box heart. Use the energy building for your mother in law and sister in law to get to know them, call them and just ask how they are faring once in a while (make them friends if you have to) cause it sound like you need them to understand you so give them a chance.

Akumaa. Infact ,the girl should not do the man like that otherwise she will live and regreti in life.