Akumaa Mama Zimbi

DO NOT KNOW HUSBAND VERY STUPID TELL U VERY SLIM

he is an idiot....ur jus so perfect he has nun to complain about now he wants reasons

People are going the extra mile just to loose some weight, he wants big butts, let him go and get one
for all u know he is following big women around. Dont listen to ur husband, keep ur shape and be glad u have it
tell him to go to hell with his big butt fantacy

akumaa i dont think this has anything to do with her size but i think the guy has met somebody new thts why he has lost interest in the wife

Akumaaa I think the man is loosing love for the wife.Why will he complain now that they married for 2 years? Did he not see her body before h got married to her? There is more to why he has started complaining. Love is not about body its about how you can help each other.

Written by Agartha USA, October 14, 2009
There is nothing you can, i think you need to pray for your husband to come back to his senses. Stay blessed, Medaase.

AKUMAA,
THE LADY SHOULD ASKED HER HUSBAND THE REASON HE IS SAYING SO ,IF THERE IS NOT ANY GOOD RESULTS
THAN THE MAN IS TOO STUPID,TO ACT IN THAT MANNER,.THE LADY SHOULD STOP WEARING THAT SHORTS
IT WILL NOT DONE HER GOOD,

The husband loved your structure before marriage and now he is fed up with your slimness and tiny buttocks. I guess he has forgotten that it is for better for worse. But I recommend the lady should start taking some food supplements to boost her body structure to please her husband and stop punishing herself by wearing numerous pants to cover up.

A KEY TO A FAILURE IS TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE,SO WOMAN,THINK OF YOURSELF FIRST.

Take it easy, u'll put on some flesh after you've given birth. My wife has grown from 8 to 12 after given birth,but i wish she' still slim.

your did not love you why because he did not like in the first place if he like you before he married whether you slim or not then he marriied no way he can say what he telling you now my advice to you is do not wearing what you saying now he do not love any more relax about your self anything can not change his mind okay if he want to leave you for another do not worried you will get someone who like slim woman may god bless you

hi akumaa this is not the resing ther is some thing

Akumaa this man has lost interest in the wife and should just move straight forward to the point and stop putting the innocent lady in stress

ur man is just a jerk, if he truly loves u he will accept u for who r, stay true 2 urself and don't let anyone make u feel less of what God have made u 2 be. if he can't love u for who u r, kick him to the curve. there are millions of other people that will be more than Glad to have u ma dear

hi akumaa this is not the resing ther is some thing she jest take ker tanks god bles u.

The lady should not force herself to become big because of a man.If the hus dos not want the wife and he kips complaining,she shld leave.

Akumaaa tell that Missy, don't bother to change your body form in anyway...... I will use myself as a typical example. Before I married my husband; he loved women with big behind; but honestly speaking i have a flat butt.... Till this day; he s'times request for me to go for botox but you know what I tell him straight up is I AM COMFORTABLE & LOVE MY SHAPE!!! iI have been married to him for over 7yrs and still going on & today when we step out what he says with pride is GOSH after 2 babies you look good in that dress or suite wear.

God bless you all lol

sweety,GOD created all things and said everything looks good......so u're beautiful the way you are, all u have to do is play your role as a good wife and try to look attractive around him and leave everything to God.

Akumaa I think the man is being very selfish, can he honestly say that he is 100% perfect in shape. Most of our men have bad body shape but we still overlook it and accept them. Ghana mbeema mo ha adween, haa ba.

hi akumaa this is not the resone becouse thre is some ting

i really love sex ans i dont care

written by hamid from spain .......october 15 , 2009 hi akumaa i tinke the guy is not seriose thans god bles u thanks

the man is only saying he is no more interested in the marriage but in an indirect way. the woman should be proud of her God given body and move on.

why should she spend monney to gain wait and later spend money to loss. your man has just lost interest in you and looking way to get ride of u. stand firm and pround of your boody and as a woman
from obaa akua

tell him to go kiss rocks. it's high time ghanaians learnt to accept people how they are. in advanced world people try to loose weight while the opposite is the case in the third world countries. too much weight gain comes with ill health.

if ur husband wants bigs ass and hips, i think there is injection for that. i have been listening to ghanawaves radio and they say there is a medicine for that sold in ghana. he can get that medicine for it. also he can get u appetamin and give u money to be eating every other second if he is that serious about his worries.

I think the man has either lost interest in his wife or he is seeing someone else or maybe the lady does not look attractive to him as she was before. i mean this is not a big issue i feel like they can work on this

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You see, This is what happens when ladies presurise men to get married to them under so many circumstances or trick them if i should say so. I dont see any reason why a person who ask ur hand in marriage the time he was not blind turn around to your demend changes in shape.

I advise the lady to go the extra mile to win his heart, wear similar dresses she use to wear before their marriage or else, there are many legonise ladies out there to impress him.

I think this man does not know what marriage is about. If that is not the case then he has a problem. The woman must help him in prayers. Thanks

mmmm i think he have see somebody that have those big ass and u know and he want that but when u ware that i will get the rashes , and also does he know the meanning if marrage i think he knew before he married to u do not ware the 2 shorts ok be like how u were ok have a nice day am reuben

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i dont think they got to know each other for long before getting married so it could be that the husband feels she is not the right person for him and wants to separate so dont give in to his pressure just be yourself and dont forget to pray cuz its only god that cn solve all problems.

doesn,t the man knows dat the slim ones are are far better in bed than the big ones? what these slim ones perform i bet u those with the fatties can never do,they sometymes make the men cry so tell the woman not to worri at all, the man will come back on his knees pleading.big butts and biggies are all sickness.

You at it yourself and work at it it all about self exm.

I think the man has started womanizing,so start praying for him be4 it is too late.

Lady, i can understand your frustration and worry. But just take it easy and be the best wife that you can be. He might one day realize your worth and value you as such or it will be too late for him then.
Just take care of yourself, look and eat good always and dont do what you dont feel comfortable doing only to regret later in life. God bless you my sister.
Bills Kofi Antwi, Cincinnati, Ohio

Lady take heart ok, for it is God who gives and is God who takes also so just relax and be yourself leave him alone to do what ever he wants to do for he shall one day pay for it in your presence, nothing bad will happen but always good
i think the man has developed a habit of chasing other women outside, so he is finding a way to sack and replace you. which is very bad.

maybe he want out.that is the only reason she can give to her.Either she meet his demands or she goes n for another woman or he is already for going after one

The lady should know her husband has gotten a new woman who fit in the pecks he is talking about.She should pray if not the next thing she will hear her husband is he can't continue with the marriage.

hi beauty, your husband may be having extra marital affair or about to take such an initiative. but never mind. try to be a responsible wife and very fervent in PRAYER since the devil is at work and is looking for someone to devour. your husband may be the target now. the Bible says love your neighbour( husband) as yourself and not love your neighbour (husband) and hate yourself. if you don't take care, in trying to please your husband, you'll rather hurt yourself the more. i bet you if you put on more weight, later he will complain again. so be yourself!! remember, IT IS EASY TO BECOME FAT but VERY DIFFICULT TO BECOME SLIM WHEN YOUR ARE FAT AND WANT TO BECOME SLIMMER. maintain your health and look more healthier and beautiful. he will appreciate you. Note, there are more slimmer ladies in the world than you. be proud of yourself.

omg the guy is stupid but i think he has an affair wit someone else dats why he is saying dat. it is better for the wife to wear some sexy clothes for her husbsand to show him dat she is a sexy wife

Akomaa tell the lady TO ASK HER HUSBAND WHY SHE MARRIED HER WEN SHE WAS SLIM AND NOW SAYING SOMETHING ELSE:iNFACT SHE SHOULD BE PROUD TO BE SLIME BECOS EVERYBODY IS DOING DIAT NOWADAYS TO GET THAT KIND OF BODY; SO SHE SHOULD BE PROUD OF HER BODY.SHE SHOULD ACT CONFIDENT IN THIS CASE AND EXPRESS HER VIEWS TO HER HUSBAND AND HSOULDNT ACT FEARFUL AT THIS TIME:SHES HOULD BE VERY CONFIDENT NOW: SHE SHOULD WEAR NICE CLOTHS AND MAKE UP MAYB ITS NOT THE PROBLEM OF HER FIGURE BUT HER TOTAL APPEARANCE; SO SHE SHOULD WATCH

DO NOT CHANGE FOR ANYONE, BE YOURSELF AND IF HE WANTS TO LEAVE LET HIM GO, WE MEN ARE ATTRACTED BY WHAT WE SEE AND FOR WHO YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOU ARE. STAY HEALTHY AND BEING A CERTAIN SHAPE----THICK, PETITE, SLIM, STATUESQUE, VOLUPTUOUS, SLENDER, SKINNY OR FAT-----IS NOT WHY ONE MARRIES ANOTHER; HE MIGHT JUST BE FUSSING WITH YOU BECAUSE HE IS PROBABLY CHEATING ON YOU. STOP 'KILLING' YOURSELF TO PLEASE YOUR MAN.

what does shape got to do with marriage.

i dont think your husband your raelly love u medaase

Akumaa ,Medaase!! Was the man blind before (or was he forced) he asked her to marry him? even the blind can feel sizes. He has a girlfriend somewhere with those characteristics-that is why he's changed. Pls tell the lady to love herself for her and not for a stupid man like him, she should divorce him and find a more responsible psychologically stable adult male to marry, and she might save herself from becoming a human microbiology laboratory b'cos he will sleep with other women with those characteristics and bring her all kinds of microorganisms for her to culture. And tell her that Not all Sexually Transmitted diseases are treatable. Afterall there are better fishes in the sea -he is abusing her emotionally. Medaase!!

What did he see when he was getting married? Why now he doesnt like you? It looks like he has found some one with a structure of a wine bottle but he doesnt know what is really in dat bottle. It might just be some thing that will change his life for good that he will mis your beautifull slim body. Dont bombasa(put on too many tings) mami God made you da way you are so move on in life and look for smeone who will appreciate your beauty before he gives you diseases.

i think the man is going after a big butted woman. how irresponsinle of him to say that. did he not see your figure before marry ing you? ignore him. you are beautiful and precious in the eyes of god and that is what really counts.

My dear is ur husband normal at all? are u God to change ur features?Next time if He tells u that nonsense again tell him to change himself to God and give u what he wants nd see if he can do that,Its obvious he has lost interest in u and perhaps seeing a world trade centre elsewhere if not someone u knew her features before marrying her cannot just open his mouth to tell u,u are too slim for him, he should go to hell

I believe de man is seeing someone so keep on praying bcuz prayer is de key.

happening. He can let the white lady have the baby and then he should tell her that he has a wife back home so that they will have to separate after the baby is born. Medaase

oh men, what will you gain from that big bottocks, can you stay home all the days of your life and stear the so call hips. May be the man has been tied with some juju. My dear don't worry, people are taking pill everyday to slim down. There are some works, if you're big they won't employ you. frankly speaking.

my dear if he doesn't want you, don't worry your will get another man who love the way you are. what i know is that he don't have eyes because now adays, men are looking for slim women.Let me tell Ghana if your too fat you don't have price. It is true

Abigail it not that u dont have price ooo. Hmm no one will even call you. especially when u dnt have shape. being too fat is more or less a disease, i am not all that fat my self but i wish i were a bit slimmer. because sometimes u cant even wear nice dresses and when u dress too u look awkward. Lady dont worry just pray that he will come back to his senses and ask for forgiveness in what ever he is doing.

probable he is using that as an excuse, he is self centre!

I DONT KNOW HOW SLIM SHE IS SOME SLIM ARE SEXY AND SOME R DISEASE TOO.

Akuma the odor is usually from the armpit and every part of the body that harbors heat, regular bathing and a good roll on can help. The girl is young and needs to be taught more.

body or nobody has nothing to do with relation.i got married to my wife when she was skinning but now she is big and i still love her 100times. Meanwhile,her friends are tissing her that if u continue to grow big ur husband will not love u anymore.i think the man is influence with his friends so the lady need to council the her husband

Its a pitty, what i will say is that keep ur shape.

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akumaa this same men always say they want slimy ladies to marry but i dont get them at all, tell the husband, that is how his wife was created he should let her be.

akumaa when they married two years ago, i dont think that the man is also staying the same.i think the man is also getting old, getting bald hair etc. so in marriage the men should not only blame the women on certain changes but they(men) should also check themselves if they also look the same after their marriage. the woman should be with herself and not worry about what the husband is saying.she should try all her possible means to perform all her marital roles.the man needs to go for counsel.

Well, the husband should take her like that because that was how she looked before proposing and marrying her. For the woman, double shorts will rather make her out of shape and unappealing. She shoulld remember that during 'intimacy' there will be no shorts but rather her real body. My advice to her is that our structure is built around our bones therefore the thicker your bones the thicker our body structure. The only thing she can do is to put on some flesh but that will not make her buttocks bigger in any way. She should be herself.

what is happening these days,with some men,can he create a single hair of a human,let alone a human body,some men are paying sooo much money for their wifes to go to the jim and loose weight,the foolish ones say stupid things when they start going after some cheap fat ass''''''' dont u stress urself for that idiot,let him go and god will give u ur mr right, who will love u for who u ar,who knows maybe god is preventing u from geting aids,thank god for everything that happens in ur life,take care of urself.

I THINK DAT THE HUSBAND IS CHEATING WITH A WOMAN WITH BIG ASSETS.TELL HIM TO GO TO HELL.IF HE DOES NOT FIND U ATTRACTIVE,THEN HE CAN GO AHEAD N SLEEP WITH HIMSELF.GOD BLESS U AND GOD BLESS AMERICA.

the man is very stupid because all fingers are not equal,if he has something to say,he should tell her
directly not other way round.

I think the man is insane.If he really loves her,he shouldn't complain about her slimness because he married her like that.I also think the man wants to marry another girl because this is totally madness. THANKS AKUMAA.

I think the husband is seeing someone with big buttocks that is why he is complaining but the wife should not worry because the husband does not no what it takes to be with big women whereas u cant go out with them publicly. My dear take heart nd be happy.